In most of the instances, when a girl saw a handsome guy or if a guy saw a gorgeous chick, he or she will definitely say that kind of person is his or her ideal partner; an ideal partner without even knowing the other side of that person. How can it be an ideal partner if it is only his or her first time to see that person? How can you say that you fall in love with that person without even knowing his or her personalities? It is quite impossible to say you love a certain person just the way he or she looks without even knowing him or her well. But sad to say in today's generation, people can already fall in love easily even just knowing or seeing a person for the first time.
It is indeed true that our eyes can play a very critical role in choosing our partner, but it should still be remembered that true love only happens if you feel that there is a spark that you can see in that person. A spark that is not only you can see outside of that person, but also what's inside of that person. Though the term love at first sight is often used by the young ones, it should still not be used as a gauge to love a certain person. It should also be remembered that love is not just about the looks of a certain person. It is definitely more than the looks. The term love at first sight can be used as a term to describe your ideal partner, but it can't be used to express a feeling on that person just by the way he or she looks. If you say you had experienced having love at first sight, then it just means that you have already found your ideal partner, but you can;t say that you immediately love him or her, and want that person to be yours already. It is quite stupid to say that you immediately love that person without even getting close to him or her. You even do not know what kind of a person he or she is to say that you love that person. Though love can be developed from love at first sight if both parties will get to know each other. By knowing each other, one can realize if he or she really loves that person. In time, if both parties know each other pretty well already, and, at the same time, both of them love to be with the company of each other, then this would be the time that we can say that true love exists between the two parties. Other than that, the love that we feel towards a certain person when we see him or her for the first time is just admiration and not true love at all.
Love at first sight is very much easy to say, but is very much difficult to prove. You can't dictate your heart to love a person just by merely looking at his or her looks. You have to get to know more about that person before your heart can love him or her from who he or she is and not just the way that person looks. Though deeper love can be developed from love at first sight in time, but definitely not on the first time you saw him or her. Saying that you already love that person that you saw for the first time without even knowing his or her personalities is definitely a joke. If this is indeed true then it only shows that your love for that person is fake because you only love him or her just the way he or she looks, but definitely you don't love him or her for who that person is.
- Jackyson B. Sze
C31 - BSA
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